Top 5 Times Pro Wrestling And MMA Have Helped Me In My Real Life.
Written By Patrick O'malley
Intro.
It's been said overtime that Music can help fans of bands and artists through some bad times in life, whilst other mediums like Film/TV can also be looked at in the same space. I've been through some bad things in my life, from trials and from tribulations to outright heartbreak, and the big question how did I get through these moments? Well it was my love for both industries that I want to work in. It's important in life to never loose sight of your goals, and when things get tough, you've got to find it in yourself. This is what has carried me through some of the worst times of my life.
5. Feeling Left Out.
Even in adulthood you can still feel like you're the odd one out, and it's not always your fault. I remember when I was about 20, all my friends went to the reading festival, and I couldn't go, this was due to the fact that I couldn't afford a ticket, but when they came back it was like I didn't even exist, and just like that I felt a distance between them and me, and when I sat back, and took this all in. I realised one thing, because most of them had gone to university, they had moved on from me. It was around this time that I saw Summerslam 2007, and I started to think, you know what life isn't that bad, even though the WWE was going through an incredibly bad space of it's own at this time, due to wellness policy violations, and real life themes that I can't go into due to the facts being against a Kid. I know what your all thinking, do I still speak to these people, well, no. I don't hate them, because we just grew apart, this is just a sad part of life. It happens.
4. Being Broke.
I get that some people have things way worse than me, but at one point in time when I was sixteen I had just been let go from my first Job. This was the first time that I had visibly lost confidence in myself, this was evident when family and friends noticed this. I found myself in a state of being bitter, that made me not a very nice to be around. For about two months I found things in quite the state. This came at the time of WrestleMania 20, and I was going round my friends house to watch it the night after it happened, and this is when my friend, who I still talk to today, gave me some cold hard truths. WAKE UP AND START MOVING, and he was right. What happened might have shaken my confidence, but it didn't defeat me. And this is the important thing. I was let go, and looked down due to the fact that I had learning issues, and from that moment on. I knew that I shouldn't just take things in life, when you have to get up and fight, then stand up and be counted.
3. Heartbreak.
In some moments in anyone's life, you can look at a TV show like Dawsons Creek, or. My So Called Life, and think this is relatable. I've been through this myself. My first major heartbreak was when I was 18 years old, and I made the mistake of falling for my best female friend. Months went by, and I didn't Say anything, and just before she was due to go to leave town. I decided to say something, but the day before I was due to do this. I was going to let my feelings go, and then when I stepped into Tesco on a Thursday Afternoon to get my mum some milk. I saw her with her Boyfriend, and she was happy, and I knew that it would be wrong of me to ruin what she had. Sometimes you've got to put others first. A few weeks later I went to visit a friend, who I still talk to today, and we ended up watching WWE Taboo Tuesday from that year, and we got talking about this, and he gave some great advice. Patrick you've got to embrace the friend, so I did.
2. Injuries.
I used to do Karate in my younger years. This ment that I've sustained some bad knocks, that the normal body shouldn't take. I was about 15 years old, and I was at home recovering from a minor knee injury, and this when I discovered MMA. One afternoon I went to my friends house, and he had gotten hold some of the early UFC PPV's on DVD. They were regional 1, so you needed a special player in order to play them, and just like that, going round my mates house became a great form of rehab. We just sat there sat there watching Shows like UFC 18, and the submissions compilation that was out at the time. No one likes being on the sidelines, but if you've got friends like this, then you're pretty much set for life.
1. My Learning Issues.
I've made it clear over some of my posts, that I've had issues with my learning since I was a kid, and i've been lucky enough to have be supported by some incredible people, who I still talk to today, however others haven't been so supportive from old friends, to people that I have worked with in my day Job. When you meet people, you should always look at people in there eyes, because that way you can tell a thousand stories be told, so when they act like assholes, you can see if anything is going in other areas of there life. This is just my thought. Pro Wrestling has helped me immensely in my life. I learnt how to accept others, and from this my friends accepted me. This is a life lesson that you're getting for free, and on the house. Which Pro Wrestlers, and MMA fighters have I learnt the most from, well that's easy. Jeff Hardy comes to mind, alongside John Cena. Chuck Liddell, and. Randy Couture, these individuals all have had there own struggles in life, whilst coming through the otherside. John has faced significant backlash over being over used by the WWE. Chuck has overcome bad accusations that I can't condone, but has always had a never say die attitude when it came to his fighting. Randy Couture took the UFC to court over unfair pay, whilst Jeff has battled his well publicized demons. I have looked at Jeff a lot in the past when I've made mistakes in my life, and when he's fallen. I always find it inspiring when he works things out for himself, you can overcome anything if you put your mind to it.
Overview Of This Piece.
Writing this piece felt like I was going to a therapy session. I laid a lot as bare as I can. This wasn't easy, and I had to take breaks during the writing period, but once it was done. I felt a bit numb, because what I wanted to say was through with, and this left me feeling quite relieved. I just hope that this piece helps anyone out there who's in a bad situation.